Transforming Conflict into Connection: Art and Science of Love Couples Retreat

April 24-25, 2027 

Rediscover your relationship and build a lasting connection!

Couple Retreats

"7 Principles for Making Marriage Work" Retreat

In-Person Mississauga All-Inclusive Weekend Couples Retreat!

  • Are financial stress, communication issues, or everyday life straining your relationship?
  • Do you feel disconnected in your relationship?

When it comes to reconnecting with your partner, you keep saying,

“Once things slow down...”

“After this busy season...”

“Maybe this summer.”


I know how it feels to be in that in-between:

💭 Still love each other but feel more like roommates.

💭 Always talking logistics, never about you two.

💭 Craving closeness, but not sure how to get it back.


That’s why we created the Couples Weekend Retreat—for couples like you.

It’s a cozy 3-day getaway designed around the 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work

(aka the Gottman Method—40+ years of science-backed relationship wisdom).

  • In today’s fast-paced world, maintaining a healthy and fulfilling relationship can feel overwhelming—especially with the rising economic pressures in the Greater Toronto Area. But it doesn’t have to be this way!
  • Join us for a transformative couples’ retreat rooted in Dr. John Gottman’s “Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work”—a proven framework for deepening connection, strengthening communication, and building a resilient partnership.
  • This couples retreat is led by Melissa Johari, Registered Social Worker, Certified Gottman Therapist, and "7 Principles" Leader! She is the Founder and Clinic Director of "The Couple Wellness Experts"
  • We will also have Daniel Rinaldi, Financial Advisor from SunLife come to give us tips and guidance for managing finances in today's strained society!

🔗 Reserve Your Spot Now! Contact Melissa at admin@couplewellnessexperts.com

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🌿 Limited Spots Available! 

Reserve Your Place Today!!

🗓️ When: 

  • Friday May 2nd to Sunday May 4th, 2025

📍 Where:

  • Queen of Apostles Renewal Centre, 1617 Blythe Rd., Mississauga, Ontario L5H 2C3 (This is a Christian retreat centre, and this 7 Principles retreat will be offered in a secular format. All are welcome)
  • Watch a tour of the retreat centre here. You can see the rooms, dining hall, meeting room, and some of the grounds.


  • Who: 
    • This retreat is appropriate for couples who are pre-engaged, premarital, newlyweds to long-time married. It is great for couples who want to enhance their relationship and are seeking better conflict management tools. 
    • This retreat is not appropriate for couples who are experiencing severe relationship distress, emotional abuse, domestic violence, active addictions (alcohol, drug, sexual, gambling, etc), or serious mental health problems in one or both partners. In those cases individual/couple therapy is recommended.

What You’ll Experience:

🧠 You’ll leave feeling closer, heard, and seen again

🌟 Reconnect Through Love Maps

Discover how to truly understand your partner’s inner world and navigate life’s challenges together.

💬 Strengthen Communication

Learn practical tools to manage conflict with grace and transform disagreements into opportunities for growth.

💰 Tackle Financial Stress Together

Work with relationship and financial experts to create a shared vision for your financial future without letting money come between you.

🤝 Build a Culture of Appreciation

Reignite the romance and rediscover the little things that made you fall in love.

🛑 Break Negative Patterns

Identify and replace toxic cycles with nurturing habits that strengthen your bond.


🔗 Reserve Your Spot Now! Contact Melissa at admin@couplewellnessexperts.com

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By the time you leave on Sunday, you’ll...

✨ Know how to communicate without tension

✨ Feel like a team again (not just co-parents or roommates)

✨ Have a toolkit to bring back into everyday life


All in a small, warm group setting—max 10 couples

It’s time to remember why you chose each other.


Reignite Your Love

A Relationship Retreat Inspired by Gottman’s Seven Principles

  • We use evidence-based tools to get results for your relationship
  • Based on 40+ years of John Gottman's research and world-renowned Gottman Method for couples. 
  • Through the longitudinal study of the masters and disasters of marriage, we know what predicts lifelong commitment and happiness within marriage. Their Love is deconstructed into understandable components that have specific skill sets. 
  • The connection and understanding experienced and expressed by the masters of marriage can be applied to all friendships and family relationships.



  • Format:
    • This retreat will be offered in 1-3 seminars per day over 3 days. 
    • There will be lectures/presentations, class exercises, private couple exercises and homework activities. You will not be asked to share personal problems in front of others. This is a psycho-educational skill-building retreat, and not a couple therapy support group.
  • Cost: 
    • $1179 per couple
    • Helping Professional discount! Cost is only $1000 if you are a helping professional (therapist, doctor, nurse, teacher, etc)
    • 50% non-refundable deposit due upon booking, payable via etransfer. 
    • Remaining balance due April 17, 2025
    • Receipts will be provided for each day of the retreat
    • Please check with your benefits provider to see what may be covered through them for psycho-educational workshops. Melissa is a Registered Social Worker and will be providing receipts for each day of the retreat


  • What is included: 
    • ✅ Guided workshops based on Gottman's Principles, with Melissa (Certified Gottman Therapist)
    • ✅ Tools to address various perpetual or solvable problems, such as financial strain and shared financial goals
    • ✅ All meals and 2-nights stay at the Queen of Apostles Renewal Centre. Food is comforting, good variety, buffet style. They are happy to make any special diet accomodations with advanced notice. Rooms are intentionally simple with no tv's so that you can focus on each other, talk, and connect.
    • ✅ Gottman Connect questionnaire, that identifies your personal relationship areas of strength and growth. You will get the results ahead of time.
    • ✅ 7 Principles Couples Set, including "7 Principles for Making Marriage Work" book by John Gottman, conversational Gottman card decks. and Couples workbook
    • ✅ Customized journals for each individual
    • ✅ Restorative activities such as walks in nature


💌 Invest in Your Relationship

Whether you’re newly married or decades into your partnership, this retreat is for couples who want to grow, heal, and thrive together.


🔗 Reserve Your Spot Now! Contact Melissa at admin@couplewellnessexperts.com

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Spaces are limited to ensure an intimate, impactful experience.

Because a Strong Relationship is the Best Investment You Can Make.


  • Disclaimer: if you are an existing client and chose to participate in this retreat, it is possible that your participation in couples therapy may become evident through participation in this retreat. Please be mindful and cautious in sharing in the group. Please know that I make every effort to respect your privacy and confidentiality around our work. You would not be identified as a client or asked to talk about our couple work in class.  

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Past Retreats:

The March 2024 Couples Retreat was a great success! Six couples from engaged to married over 30 years! The participants were enthusiastic with the exercises, appreciated the role plays/videos demonstrating the Gottman techniques, involved with the discussions and gave encouraging feedback! Couples reported feeling closer at the end of the weekend retreat together.

Thank you again to Mike Fidler, my Gottman Mentor, who came to support me in hosting my first retreat! Also, thank you to Kristen Parselias, my University of Toronto MSW intern, who was a great help through the weekend. In addition, thank you to Susan Netterfield, MDiv Tyndale Student, who came quite spontaneously last minute and was a lovely help as well!

Pictured here is me with Mike and Kristen :)


Pictured here is me with the door prize winners (posted with their permission)! Congratulations P and J! Thank you again for coming and for all your input in the class discussions! They won a Gottman Love Maps/Open-Ended Questions Card Deck and some other goodies!

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Customized Retreats:

Retreats can be an intensive therapeutic weekend for one couple, or offered to a group as a condensed workshop. Some take place locally, some take place abroad. They can be offered as a week-long retreat in a warm destination. Or it could be a yurt somewhere remote. You pick the destination! I can guide you with the customized retreat virtually or in-person. Please inquire for further information.

To learn more about Melissa, please refer to her bio.

Invest in Your Relationship

💜 Reconnect and Thrive: An Art and Science of Love Weekend Couples Retreat

If you are ready to have a romantic relationship that feels more connected, and want to learn communication and conflict management tools that you can also use with others in your life, this retreat is for YOU! Dive into deep conversations that will help you leave with a renewed sense of love, friendship and joy in your relationship.

Picture this: The kids are with their grandparents and you blocked off the whole weekend to be able to focus on each other. You're learning each other all over again. You're laughing, you're touching, you're talking and getting curious about each other again. You're having tricky conversations, but you're able to do it with care and openness. You feel on the same page again. You notice and appreciate each other. You deserve more of that.

Welcome to the "Art and Science of Love" Couples Retreat — a cozy, immersive weekend escape where you and your partner can reconnect, learn powerful relationship tools, and fall in love all over again.

This is your invitation to deepen connections and communicate more effectively not only with each other, but with others around you.


🕊️ Why This Retreat?

Are you feeling more like roommates than romantic partners? Always talking about schedules, kids, or chores—but not your relationship? Waiting for “the right time” to reconnect?

This retreat is for you if:

💭 You are having the same argument over and over again

💭 You find it hard to broach certain topics or feel heard

💭 You love each other but feel disconnected

💭 Life's busyness keeps pushing your relationship to the back burner

💭 You crave deeper closeness but don’t know how to get it back 

💭 You would love to dream together again and look towards the future

Imagine....

Wouldn’t it feel like an incredible breath of fresh air to laugh, touch, and talk again like you did when you first fell in love?

Wouldn’t it be so nice to feel closer than ever to your partner — like you’re truly on the same page, heart-to-heart?

Picture this — you tell your partner what you need, calmly and confidently, and they actually listen with love and care. That’s powerful stuff.

It just feels so good when you can fully trust each other, you know? Like you’ve got each other’s backs no matter what.

Don’t you love that feeling when someone notices everything you do and really appreciates it? You deserve more of that.

Think about how much easier life would be if you and your partner could sort out the big stuff — like intimacy, kids, and money — without all the stress.

Wouldn’t it be amazing if those little arguments actually brought you closer instead of further apart?

Imagine feeling completely safe and loved in your relationship, like you can fully relax into it.

How great would it be if you both shared the house stuff evenly so it didn’t all fall on one person?

Do you miss feeling wanted by the person you married? Honestly… wouldn’t it be incredible to feel confident and attractive again to your spouse — like you’ve still got it?

Let us guide you to a place of calm, safety, and connection, where you'll learn research-based tools that have helped thousands of couples thrive.

🔗 Registration is now OPEN! Contact Melissa at admin@couplewellnessexperts.com

🧠 Why YOU should be on this retreat!


1. On this journey, you’ll have open and honest conversations with your partner that help you feel closer and more connected- so you can truly enjoy your marriage again.

2. Through fun and practical workshops, you’ll learn how to handle conflict in a way that makes both of you feel heard, understood, and valued.

3. With simple trust-building activities, you’ll strengthen your bond so you feel safe, supported, and like a real team.

4. In guided discussions, you’ll discover fresh ways to appreciate each other’s efforts- helping you bring more harmony and balance back home.

5. Using proven tools, you’ll be able to tackle the tough stuff like intimacy, parenting, and money together- allowing you to thrive as a family.

6. With laughter, sweet moments of connection, and memorable activities, you’ll rekindle your friendship and remember how fun it is to simply enjoy each other’s company.

7. As you reconnect, you’ll also notice a boost in your own confidence — feeling attractive, valued, and proud of the love you’re creating together.

Rooted in Dr. John Gottman’s 50+ years of research, this retreat helps couples:

  • 🌟 Reconnect Through Love Maps – Explore each other’s inner worlds
  • 💬 Strengthen Communication – Replace tension with effective dialogue
  • 🤝 Build a Culture of Appreciation – Fall in love with the little things again
  • 🛑 Break Negative Patterns – Identify and shift unhelpful cycles

By the end of this retreat on Sunday, you’ll leave feeling: 

✨ Heard, understood, and emotionally closer 

✨ Equipped with communication and conflict management tools you can use every day 

✨ Like a team again—not just co-parents or roommates


By the time you head home, you and your partner will feel more connected, know how to communicate better (even when things get hard), and have new tools to bring balance and peace into your home. Most of all, you’ll leave with a renewed sense of love, friendship, and joy in your marriage.

🗓️ Retreat Details

🗓️ When: 

Saturday April 24th to Sunday April 25th, 2027

📍 Where: 

King's College in London, Ontario 

📧 Register Today: 

Email Melissa at admin@couplewellnessexperts.com

Register

Contact Melissa at admin@couplewellnessexperts.com


👫 Who Should Attend

This retreat is ideal for:

  • Pre-engaged or premarital couples
  • Newlyweds through to long-time married couples
  • Partners wanting to grow, reconnect, or better handle conflict

NOT suitable for: Couples experiencing emotional abuse, domestic violence, active addictions, an active affair, or untreated severe mental health issues. (Intensive couples therapy or individual therapy is recommended in these cases).


🧰 What’s Included

✅ 3-Day Gottman-based Workshop with Melissa and Mike (Certified Gottman Therapists) 

✅ Private couple exercises (no group sharing required!) 

✅ The Art and Science of Love Couples Set: Couple Workbooks, Card Decks & Activities 

✅ Continental Breakfast, Lunch, and Snacks

✅ Free access to Melissa’s Sound Relationship House video 

✅ Nature walks & reflective time together

✅ FREE parking and FREE wi-fi


🍽️ What’s Not Included

🚫 Dinners and Accommodations  

🚫 Any travel expenses. 

King's College is only a 15 minute drive from the London International Airport (YXU). 

You could also fly into Toronto Pearson International Airport (YYZ), and get a direct shuttle or bus to London. London is a 2-hour drive west of Toronto. 

Another option for our American friends is flying into Detroit (DTW) and taking Robert Q to London.

🚫 Couples therapy (this is not a therapy group)

🚫 Optional post-retreat supports are available as needed

🚫 Spa or massage options are nearby in the London area, but are NOT included in this retreat. It is best to book this ahead of time for Friday anytime, Saturday night, Sunday night, or Monday anytime. You can make the getaway extra special by planning this ahead of time and taking that little extra time to continue the couples experience. 

Retreat participation does not include personal disclosure with the group—privacy is respected at all times.


💵 Cost & Registration Info

Pricing: 

For your convenience, we are offering this 2-Day retreat both in-person and virtually. Choose your experience:

  • 👥 In-Person 
  • 💻 On-Line Only 


Early Bird Pricing Per Couple:

  • $1097 for in-person per couple
  • $997 for on-line per couple

Regular Pricing Per Couple:

  • $1397 for in-person per couple
  • $1297 for on-line per couple
  • this workshop price may be elligible for reimbursement through your health insurance (work benefits)
  • a receipt is provided for each day of the retreat

Deposit: 

$500 deposit is required to secure your spot. The retreat is limited to 25 couples. Payment can be made to: admin@couplewellnessexperts.com 

Balance: 

The remaining balance is required by February 24, 2027. Payment can be made to admin@couplewellnessexperts.com 

Cancellation Policy:

Deposits are fully refundable until January 24, 2027. Cancellations made after January 24, 2027 have non-refundable deposits.

Cancellations made between February 25, 2027 and March 24, 2027 will result in a 50% loss of the total workshop fee. Any cancellations made on or after March 25, 2026 will result in a total loss of funds. 

We reserve the right to cancel the workshop if the minimum number of participants is not met. In such cases, all deposits will be refunded in full.

Receipts Provided: 

Receipts are provided for the workshops after each day, and may be covered by your benefits plan under Registered Social Work.

Meals: 

Continental Breakfast and Lunch is provided Saturday and Sunday. Please let Melissa know if you have any dietary restrictions. 

There are many nice dinner restaurant options within a 10-15 minute drive from King's College.  


Requirements

  • Each partner must complete the registration form upon booking
  • There may be a virtual 1:1 meeting ahead of time to go over pre-registration details




🔗 Register Now! Contact Melissa at admin@couplewellnessexperts.com

Meet Your Retreat Facilitators!

Melissa Johari is a passionate couples therapist with over 20 years of experience working with families.

Credentials:

  • Founder and Clinic Director of The Couple Wellness Experts, BA, MSW, MTS, RSW, CF
  • Registered Social Worker, Certified Gottman Therapist, 7 Principles Leader, Art and Science of Love Leader
  • Clinical Fellow & Approved Supervisor with the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT)


Melissa began hosting retreats in 2024 to give couples a space—free from distraction—to reflect, heal, and grow together. This upcoming 2027 retreat will be the 4th Annual Spring Couples Retreat!

Mike Fidler is an International Speaker and Trainer. He is a Certified Gottman Therapist and Master Gottman Trainer. He has been married over 50 years and has 30+ years in the therapy industry. He is also a Registered Social Worker and Art and Science of Love Workshop Leader


💌 Ready to Invest in Your Relationship?

Join a small group of like-minded couples (max 12 couples) for a weekend of laughter, learning, and lasting love.


✨ Because a strong relationship is the best investment you can make.


🔗 Register Now! Contact Melissa at admin@couplewellnessexperts.com



  • Disclaimer: if you are an existing client and chose to participate in this retreat, it is possible that your participation in couples therapy may become evident through participation in this retreat. Please be mindful and cautious of sharing in the group. Please know that I make every effort to respect your privacy and confidentiality around our work. You would absolutely not be identified as a client or asked to talk about our couple work in class.  




Past Couple Retreats

Melissa facilitated three weekend couples retreats from March 2024 to May 2026 at the Queen of Apostles Renewal Centre in Mississauga, Ontario. Each of these were based on Gottman's "7 Principles for Making Marriage Work." 

There were a range of couples, from engaged to married for over 30 years! Couples at any stage can benefit from an enriching weekend together.

Couples provided positive feedback, including:

  • "great food!"
  • "peaceful zen like venue"
  • "strategies can be used for my partner, mother, kids, coworkers, anyone!"
  • "love the live role plays"
  • "Melissa is very knowledgeable at Gottman Principles"
  • "Melissa is a great facilitator - very passionate and willing to share examples, materials"

Anonymous evaluations revealed 100% of the participants not only felt closer after the retreat, but also felt better equipped to manage conflict.

Melissa was grateful to have members of her team come in for added support, and also had guest speakers join, including Master Gottman Trainer, Mike Fidler (March 2024); Financial Advisor, Daniel Rinaldi (May 2025); and Life Coach/Vision Board Trainer, Dianne Reichenbach (May 2026).

Melissa's Intern, Mathilde, was there too, pictured below, and she wrote a blog for The Couple Wellness Experts about her experience.

Customized Retreats:



Retreats can be an intensive therapeutic weekend for one couple, or offered to a group. It can be locally or abroad. They can be offered as a week-long retreat in a warm destination. Or it could be a yurt somewhere remote. You pick the destination! I can guide you with the customized retreat virtually or in-person. Please inquire for further information.

To learn more about Melissa, please refer to her bio.